
42 years to be involved with someone else. It should feel like a long time, but to me it has gone by in a flash of work days, retirement days, errands, events, and thankfully, days spent together, enjoying the life we have built.
It hasn't been perfect, what in life ever is, but it has produced some really incredible moments that have been unforgettable.
1st time we married in Downey in very hot, humid weather. My wedding ring didn't even want to go on. (Whose idea was this, anyway?)
2nd time we got married by a Priest and a Rabbi at my home church in Canyon Country. Once again, the weather was BRUTAL! My AC could not keep up with 60 guests milling around my house and it was hot as hell. Seeing a trend here?
The 3rd time we had the ship's captain marry us in February of 2020. Maybe we actually figured this hot weather thing out. Of course in July we were still basically living in lock-down from COVID-19, so we were totally on board with the early celebration.
We have survived these and many other adversities along the way and have had some wonderful times.
10 years into our marriage we were blessed with a son to raise. Yes, that meant that for my second wedding I was 3 months pregnant. I kidded my Dad that I finally gave him his shotgun wedding.
Thanks so much for realizing that maybe marriage might be something worth pursuing and that I might be that someone for you.
It's nice to know that your idea was right on.
Happy Anniversary. More to come. I love you.
(Photo from our second wedding, 1990)