I don't consider myself old yet. Yes, I turned 60 this year, but seriously, I still feel like there are years left to enjoy, etc.
Well, this past month has put a bit of a dent in my thoughts. I have lost 2 people, who were not old and that is making me sad right now.
The first friend I lost, was a work friend named Steve. He worked for PBS for decades, getting us PTV stations the money we were owed for rights. I was not directly involved, but was thrust into it, just a week or two before he died. Due to the fact that we were friends on Facebook, he sent me an email, which I forwarded on to our senior management.
Not a week later, I saw the message from his sister (I believe that is her in the photo above), who posted on Facebook. Steve had died, very suddenly, at 60. I was heartbroken. He was born on Long Island, so we felt that connection, and it drew us together. Music was his thing and he quite often was part of something called Sing Out Jam Out (SOJO). It sounded like a cool thing and seemed to happen about once a month.
His other activity was reading books for the blind and I thought that was a great thing to do with his free time, too.
There will be a Quaker Meeting Memorial Service on Sunday May 17th.
I miss you Steve and your incredible sense of humor.
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Tammy went by several names, including Charlies Angel in the Internet world. I met her almost a decade ago, via the Max Martini Board during the filming of The Unit.
She loved to write and sew and quilt and shoot guns. We connected on several levels and talked to each other often.
When I went to Oswego to college, she offered to sew me some pillow cases for my room. The pillow cases I had, got wet and so they were not on the pillows, when I took the first photos of my room. I told her that I was good...and I was.
That she cared enough to offer, meant a lot to me.
She mentioned a Monday thing in some of her posts and one day I asked about it. She informed me that she had cancer and that was the day she was scheduled for chemo. I was so sorry to hear this, but one always hopes for the best. In her case, she had 3 more years with her Husband and her young daughter.
I heard of her passing on Tuesday night, May 12th. She was only 47 years old.
Her viewing is on Sunday May 18th and service on Monday.
God Bless you, Tammy. I will miss you.
The rest of my Facebook friends, please stay healthy. Thanks.